too late

• He wanted to visit his grandfather, now it's too late. I hate to see him down. Time hasn't been his best friend I guess.
• She had to come back before they buried her grandfather. I haven't talked to her yet. I love her smile. I don't know what to say to her.

What is this time and space that keeps us from our loved ones? Have we reflected this pain upon ourselves? Tough call I guess ... it all comes down to priorities ...

P.S. I went to see her. She looks ... ok for now. I wish them strength.