right time?
It has always been a topic of discussion between us, what is the right age to have a child? Common knowledge is that you should have your first child before the age of 30, but how does that fit into today's life style? Most likely by 30 we are just out of school with a PhD degree struggling with our pride and the reality that there is no red carpet laid out for us ... so we are not financially, emotionally or even physically ready to be a parent.
Personally, I love kids and would love to have a child of my own very soon. Putting aside the fact that I still don't have a partner to have children with - like that is a small problem! - I can't seem to be able to fit that anywhere into my schedule! and by that I mean having a child ...
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I am past 32 and don't have any either! The partner is there, but financially and emotionally we're not there yet! so I set my line @ 35! we'll see! ;-)
Cheers,
--sooski
mamoolan hamash aghab miofte, yeki daneshgahe ma bood, goft bade phd, badesh ostad shode alan mige bad 5 sale dige ke tenur beshe, badesham in ghad saresh shologh mishe ke yadesh mire :))
I don't know why but I think 2-3 years ago I was more capable to handle it than now!I'm just scared!
nona joon i don't know, another friend told me the same thing ...
why one would want to have a kid?? never is what I say...
well, then i guess it's a good thing that some people want children and some don't ...
I read this long time ago, it is also related and interesting:
http://www.iranian.com/KatayoonHadizadeh/2004/August/Baby/index.html
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